The world is no longer safe for children. War, natural disasters, poverty, diseases, lack of formal education, human trafficking, and all forms of abuse are among the grave threats. As parents and grandparents, we have to fight to protect the helpless children.
The recent Ako Para Sa Bata Conferences have addressed the issues: the Art and Science of Parenting, Mental Health and The Child without borders. The 2,000 social workers and psychologists who participated in the recent conference reveal that there are so many threats against the children — some of which are the predators in their own families and communities.
We should set aside some of the glitter and glitz of holiday season, the shimmering lights and dazzling décor. Commercialism in the past years has blinded many people, making them insensitive to the plight of those who need help.
We should focus on the truly meaningful essence of love this Christmas. It is really about the Child Jesus and salvation.
We pray for spiritual grace, love, forgiveness, lasting world peace and for the people and their children who are about to start the rehabilitation and rebuilding of their disaster-stricken and war-torn communities.
As we count our blessings, we release all negative thoughts to set aside the personal challenges.
Here are some wishes for the children who deserve to inherit a better world.
A home with loving parents who will guide and care for them. That all parents will lead by example and teach kids spiritual and family values, and good manners. That all children will be safe from domestic violence and abuse.
Good health. That all children, especially in the rural areas, will have proper nourishment, medical and dental care to grow strong and healthy. That the essential vaccines to combat diseases will be available to all children especially in remote and devastated towns.
A pollution-free environment — clean air, pure water, open fields and parks with trees and flowers. That they may appreciate nature and learn how to protect the seas, rivers, lakes, and forests.
Quality education. That the public school system will be upgraded with dedicated teachers, classrooms, and books for all. Mobile libraries and reading programs. That all kids will be given the opportunity to study and the chance to excel. For the devastated areas of the country, temporary classrooms where the kids can continue their studies. Psychologists, counselors, and teachers to help the kids overcome post-traumatic stress disorder.
A comprehensive sports program for national and international competitions. That kids will learn the values of friendly competition and the art of winning and losing gracefully.
A gender discrimination-free society that will encourage girls and boys to aspire to become leaders in their chosen professions. The resources and opportunities to fulfill all their goals.
A progressive national arts and culture program and outreach projects to elevate the consciousness of children. Awareness of their rights and the chance to fulfill their dreams.
More education grants for scholarships for deserving students in the universities. Subsidized education for the marginalized kids. And quality and balanced programming on television with more educational and entertaining shows. That producers should not exploit aspiring young performers in noontime shows. These minors and adolescents should be protected.
An accelerated science, math, and technology educational program to equip all future graduates with skills to compete in the international markets.
A stable economy. Jobs and livelihood programs so that children can go to school. They should not be exploited to work in sweatshops or beg in the streets.
A country with visionary national leaders, hardworking, honest officials with wisdom, integrity and heart. An efficient, transparent government that is free from corruption.
A safe, crime-free, drug-free, abuse-free environment. That all kids will be protected from the menace of incest, physical and emotional abuse, and the scourge of drugs.
That children will not be used as soldiers in areas of armed conflict.
Freedom of expression. The right to be themselves. That adults realize that kids need respect and are entitled to be heard. Open communication with parents and teachers.
Innocence. A happy childhood and the chance to enjoy being a child. Time to have fun, play, study, rest and heal. Above all, time to grow up — at their own pace.
A Blessed Christmas to all!
Maria Victoria Rufino is an artist, writer and businesswoman. She is president and executive producer of Maverick Productions.
mavrufino@gmail.com